Bpd jealous of ex. I am extremely jealous.

Bpd jealous of ex But in my opinion, this has no relation to BPD. I obsessed over thinking he (applies to my exes as well) had a better time with other people than with me, that he was relieved I wasn’t there This is very similar to my ex’s behavior post breakup, minus sending a video. If this is a boundary for I (25f) am extremely jealous of my boyfriend's (24m) past and him being in contact with some of his exes/ ex lovers. Ultimately I think jealousy can be something you can enjoy as long as the trust is there. Mine never got jealous of other women, but was jealous of the affection I showed my own nieces. I get super toxic with lovers because of my jealousy, which I hate. She is also mentally stuck at somewhere between 7 and 13 in way she Over the first weekend of NC/blocking, my ex w/BPD: • Attempted to call me 27 time the initial evening; Her response was to say i am the abusive one to play the victim role herself. Obviously I get easily jealous like any other person with bpd which just makes me hate it more. I think she purely wants to make me jealous to trigger me so she can say I’ve been diagnosed with BPD since 2019, but I never got help until recently because I recently decided to get sober. So I felt I'm in a mad triple decker story where she's trying to make me jealous by telling me stuff about ex #3 whom she made jealous by keep seeing ex #2. i mean, if you really liked someone else, would you still be trying to make your ex jealous with them when your the one that broke up with them? it dosent make sense. I'm honestly shocked to read all the comments. Often, she would articulate that she was "right about people" and thought herself an amateur clinician in terms of assessing personality. My ex's jealousy and fear of abandonment was also extreme so much so that we couldn't go out anywhere without it manifesting in some way or other. 18months in we move in together. Trust issues and jealousy are common among people with Borderline personality disorder (BPD), and they often stem from their fear of abandonment, low self-esteem, and difficulty regulating their emotions. Not taking in consideration that public transport doesn't always run on time. She's using the other guy to make you That would mean her now ex BPD friend id permanently out of her life . Dialectical behavior therapy (the “gold standard” for treating BPD) reminds us that in order to mindfully act in our wise mind, we need to first take a non-judgmental stance. whenever my boyfriend of 1 year goes out with his friends, i get thank you a lot. Because they both Posted by u/Miserable-Art3025 - 1 vote and 1 comment Posted by u/doublekkcrystals - 1 vote and no comments Anyhow, she explicitly told me how her bf was jealous of her friendship with a grin on her face. i'm not interested in her romantically, or r/BPD is a community of people with BPD (EUPD) and people who know someone with BPD looking for mutual support Thanks for raising this as it’s something many of us with BPD experience - you’re not alone. This suspiciousness leads to a range of mate retention behaviors, from affection and support to criticism and abuse. Backstory she cheated on me a week before our anniversary, add she emotionally cheated on me several times throughout our relationship. If I can challenge just one of your comments - your morbid jealousy isn’t based on nothing. Some Narcissists do that. Do people with BPD try to make others jealous? She's triangulating you. She found out he'd cheated multiple times and she still didn't leave (or even reproach him) And then, as time went on, she became This article dives into the connection between BPD and jealousy and offers strategies for managing jealousy in individuals with BPD. We were LC with me initiating brief messages until such time as I gave up. When we Excessive jealousy is a common experience for those with borderline personality disorder (BPD). Just to make her jealous. I cry, I get angry, I think Topic: Odd things your BPD ex was jealous about (Read 865 times) imstillhere89 Offline What is your sexual orientation: Straight Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner Relationship status: broken up Posts: 60 Odd things your BPD ex My ex online friend wBPD was so jealous that she tried to break up my relationship (despite being in a relationship herself) from 10,000 miles away by talking trash to my partner’s mother, my ex and his pwBPD behind my back to conspire to break us up. he did tell me once when i was splitting that he just “prefers being with his friends” but whenever i We broke up but I'm still jealous of his ex 🤡 Vent Meme Share Sort by: Best Open comment sort options Best Top New Controversial Old Q&A Add a Comment rsosilly • The way i kept up with everything my ex bf’s ex ever posted on social Reply reply • I can certainly relate to this one. Topic: BPD partner's jealous of my success. She contacted him the day we started officially dating, the we lost contact for 2 the Side note I have BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder) which is a struggle all in itself because I can't seem to let go of the ex, no matter how unhealthy the relationship with her is. Reply reply throw_away_style19 • and this is just i struggle with jealousy to the point it controls my mood and ruins my whole day. My ex would make up scenarios in his head to prove I was untrustworthy. . man Posted by u/Evening_Reach7078 - 3 votes and 2 comments My ex was jealous but she was jealous in a different way. She’s insistent I’m the reason she’s “depressed” and I’m manipulating I’m friends with 2 exes. idk Skip to main content My ex was with a guy for years and told me the only reason it lasted so long was she didn't really desire him but liked the company. No amount of knowing changes how I feel and it’s just so exhausting being this way. This is like 70% of our conflicts. r/BPD is a community of people with BPD (EUPD) and people who know someone with BPD looking for mutual support I'm not "judging" them, it's labeled relationship if they didn't want advice they'll label it "venting" or I have BPD and I loved crazy ex girlfriend, but it was also a wake up call in a sense. Feelings of inferiority and jealousy with my friends is probably my biggest trigger. I'm not talking about relationship jealousy. People don't need BPD to get insecure or jealous or feel bad about this kind of stuff. a borderline pd person (a severe bpd at that) and additionally at minimum has a lot of hpd, dpd and npd traits if not these pds full blown. I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Often, she would articulate that she was "right about people" and Posted by u/DXisco - 16 votes and 16 comments Does anyone get extremely jealous when their partners follow someone from the opposite sex on social I have a lot of insecurities from my ex of 9 years though because he followed all his “friends” on social media and I found nothing but flirtatious messages Topic: My BPD ex tried to make me jealous, I didn't react and then she blocked me. My bpd ex gf told her that that was something she could talk to her mom about before I could even say anything. I don't 124 votes, 37 comments. They are fearful and view something of worth so long as they can take it from you. For me, that means recognizing those feelings of I've searched for posts on retroactive jealous, and while there are several, there aren't many stories of people with BPD that Skip to main content Open menu Open navigation Go to Reddit Home r/BPD A chip A close button Get app Get the Reddit BPD'S get jealous to the extreme, even if they don't want you they like it for you to be "avaliable" in case they want you at some point down the line. Do you know the things you should do or the things you should say to someone with borderline personality disorder (BPD)?If not, join the millions of family, friends, and/or coworkers who don’t Discovering the intricate nature of retroactive jealousy in people with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) takes us to a pivotal moment where past events blend with current feelings, forming a nuanced connection. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns. These are the things he did: 1) He put a tracker on our computer to get my email password, then he logged into my old emails from up to 5 years ago and contacted every single person in my email account (like from dating sites or whatever Me and my ex went no-contact a week ago and I don't intend to break their wish of not talking. If I had that, I would really just neglect my family completely. If we walk by a My therapist pointed out to me that its not necessarily "jealousy" that we feel - but more of "fear of abandonment". I have found a picture of his ex today, which he always refused to show me. I have very very similar problems to you. u/little-nightmare-ki, if you do not want advice, please specify in the body of your post. Eventually told her that I wasn't comfortable with how often they talked. My pwBPD knows this and they are coming to accept it. I heavily relate to the fact it’s extremely hard to maintain that way of thinking. BPD people are obsessed with ego, because they have no inner richness or substance of their own. So the problem might not be entirely you. Unattractive with low self esteem and I did it all because she lives in the same town as my ex. Sometimes it's jealousy, Sometimes it's "i'm much better than her" and Sometimes it's just pure hate. Because they both Hi :) My partner (24M) and I (28F) have been together for a couple of months now. "r/ BPD Loved Ones" is a support forum and safe space for people to discuss the Skip to main content Open menu Open navigation Go to Reddit Home Sounds like BPD. It might be just me, but my partner currently brings up fictional characters and it's just very confusing to me on why I feel jealous when they call them "kissable" or say something like, "theyre so mnghh" or anything like that. My ex-boyfriends always did. And because they feel emotions so intensely (including jealousy Posted by u/Blondly22 - 1 vote and no comments Its also possible your boyfriend is feeding into your jealousy. I thought that this 204 votes, 33 comments. God damn, my own fkin brother. It’s often projection, too. Even when broken up, for people with My therapist said my ex might have BPD, and that to her she always seemed jealous and controlling. r/BPD is a community of people with BPD (EUPD) and people who know someone with BPD I get jealous over how much attention my partner is giving her cat vs giving me. What were the weirdest things your BPD ex was jealous about? Probably I won't be able to mention everything he was jealous about but here are some examples: *jealous about everyone I had on my Facebook (I deactived my fb after few months of our r/s because Borderline personality disorder (BPD) affects many areas of a person’s life, including their relationships. She thinks that I think my exes are more attractive than her. u/yawnsoul, if you do not want advice, please specify in the body of your post. u/Ok_Attitude2368, if you do not want advice, please specify in the body of your post. « on: September 17, 2017, 11:56:28 PM » Hello all! It's been quite some time r/BPD is a community of people with BPD (EUPD) and people who know someone with BPD looking for mutual support and resources to help guide them through their journey. We used to have great communication (or at least I thought so) and an agreement that in order to make a smooth transition from boyfriend to just friend he would let me know about certain things regarding his personal life, like if he starts liking or falling in It's not clear if she has bpd or not and we can't diagnose. I had images popping up in Summary: Individuals with borderline personality (BPD) features are more prone to suspicious jealousy, which significantly influences their romantic relationships. 👀 I’ve never even come in contact with another BPD person (who is open about it) SO SHE WAS JEALOUS. Like kinda makes me question his decision making lol. We really do need to learn to rationalise things though I still communicate with my high-functioning BPD ex for various reasons, and I’ve found that implementing some of the techniques I’ve read in “talking to a loved one with borderline personality disorder” and staying firm with my boundaries has actually helped a lot Anyone else with a BPD mother that hates the fact that you got on well with your dad? My whole life she has spoken ill of my dad to me and my sisters like she’s on a mission to turn us against him. So, my ex husband is a piece of work. This can have a significant impact on their relationships because it can lead them Jealousy is a prominent feature for those with Narcissistic Personality Disorder and Borderline Personality Disorder (NPD and BPD). Their brains short-circuit when they see you because the shame really goes nowhere. She was quite vitriolic on the devaluation and final discard. The couple of times I saw my ex around my neighbourhood post-discard she didn't visibly flinch 12 votes, 22 comments. Yet, when his daughter's visitation is coming up & he is in contact with his ex, I feel incredibly triggered. I've noticed that my uBPD DD is very jealous if we as grandparents give attention or gifts to our GD. 272K subscribers in the BPD community. We were together for 7 years, and I know she was cheating on me for at least 6 months before she left me, and blamed it on me being jalousie and controlling. In her eyes, they treated her badly due to them being jealous of her, because As someone with BPD I need my partner to be able to tell me my shit to my face THEN provide support and solutions for said problems because my brain is going goat screams in so many directions it just wants to feel safe. Self help books, practicing self love, journaling, meditation, watching comfort movies, hanging out with Posted by u/arbecs - No votes and 1 comment My ex boyfriend would be insanely jealous even about things outside my control, imagine my train would have a 5 minutes delay and somehow in his mind I had cheated because I was 5 minutes late. When he tells me about how he was with someone, I feel intense emotional pain and extreme anger. This post has been marked as a Venting Post. I don’t know how to stop being jealous whenever I see a pretty girl, especially when I’m around my boyfriend. 16 votes, 19 comments. I don't suffer from BPD, probably I deal with C-PTSD though or codependency and for sure reactive depression (emotional breakdowns like breakups trigger months of depressive episodes). When we just started dating, my bf i cant stop looking at her social media and comparing myself to her. And now, it's a living hell since we have broken up last week and she is already banging 41 votes, 74 comments. Men with BPD may be especially likely to suspect that a partner is being unfaithful and lash out. Resulted in him looking through all my messengers on my PC, which prompted me to grab my son and go visit my parents, which made him beg for me to come back. Saw her before Christmas two days before I the car - didn't acknowledge each other then It might be just me, but my partner currently brings up fictional characters and it's just very confusing to me on why I feel jealous when they call them "kissable" or say something like, "theyre so mnghh" or anything like that. It’s irrational and I don’t NPD and BPD Processing of Jealousy Sufferers of Narcissistic and Borderline Personality Disorders experience the good fortune and achievement of others as a personal affront. But it seemed like she was having fun and loved her family and I was jealous of I am extremely jealous. I've been with him almost 4 years and have zero reason to think he'd be unfaithful. Within the the first week Hey, So my ex partner who suffers from BPD contacts me after 16 months whe she finds out i went on a date. One incident was at our DD's birthday when my H, her father, gave NPD and BPD Processing of Jealousy Sufferers of Narcissistic and Borderline Personality Disorders experience the good fortune and achievement of others as a personal affront. She still needs revenge two years later, eventhough we only had a FWB for 4 1/2 months and she said she never loved me. I’m jealous on my exwbpd, we got to talk for a little a week ago , and even if it was unwanted because quite frankly I did not ask them how they’re doing or anything about their life, they told how their life got so much better, how they’re not depressed anymore , how With BPD we have a fear of abandonement, we have low self esteem – and we have intense emotions – it’s no wonder we start feeling jealous and then acting on it. Of course, I'm NPD and BPD Processing of Jealousy Sufferers of Narcissistic and Borderline Personality Disorders experience the good fortune and achievement of others as a personal affront. She friend zoned me multiple times, but I venmoed a girl I've been seeing for a Hi there, I'm not officially diagnosed with BPD but I've talked to my psychologist and it's clear that there's a good chance that I do have it, unfortunately she refuses to diagnose me due to how easy it is to misdiagnose it. People with BPD really struggle to have functional and healthy I’ve noticed that I keep getting jealous every time my husband and my best friend hanging out with me. i dont know why because even my boyfriend said he wasnt happy with her. She was being sued by her former 60 votes, 81 comments. Share Sort by: Best Open comment sort options Best Top New Controversial Old Q&A Add a Comment wastingtoomuchthyme • They can come back but it's never the same my fp is an ex-girlfriend of mine, but we have a very close friendship now after a break of a few months. 89K subscribers in the BPDlovedones community. I saw SO much of myself in Rebecca, but ive had friends leave for the very things Rebecca has done so it almost makes a little jealous despite it being fictional, that her Does anyone else have crazy jealousy? My bpd is ruining my relationship. r/BPD is a community of people with BPD (EUPD) and people who know someone with BPD I feel like this a lot. I feel sad for your ex. BPD ruined my relationships and life as a whole and made me suicidal when I realized that there was something very wrong with me. She is def. He's on the spectrum, so he doesn't There is no chance of your boyfriend ever going back to his ex because he chose YOU. It's clear you're not the only one triggered by this behavior. One of the main issues was This rings eerily true to my current ex. Has anyone else experienced a high degree of self importance with your Ex w/ BPD? My ex often spoke to me with an aura of arrogance or pretension, she seemed to like the sound of her own voice. Posted by u/oniaiwasprettygood - 8 votes and 2 comments BPD has a lot to do with shame. I’m not even in a relationship right now and I constantly make myself feel hurt and jealous. So I'm REALLY jealous of my boyfriend's past - ex-girlfriends in particular. The situations vary. Knowing they care about me is no help. My What were the weirdest things your BPD ex was jealous about? Probably I won't be able to mention everything he was jealous about but here are some examples: *jealous about everyone I had on my Facebook (I deactived my fb after few months of our r/s 98 votes, 21 comments. I get jealous very easily, for example, when my boyfriend just mentions a woman, when we go out and he talks to other people, when he has fun with someone else. I just learned that Hey, So my ex partner who suffers from BPD contacts me after 16 months whe she finds out i went on a date. I know the new supply, we were not really friends, but we had a lot of mutual friends. It's been quite some time since I'd last spoken to my BPD ex. Here's how BPD symptoms can magnify feelings of jealousy: The intense fear of Dialectical behavior therapy (the “gold standard” for treating BPD) reminds us that in order to mindfully act in our wise mind, we need to first take a non-judgmental stance. Because they both Hi, Something that was very strange about my BPD (ex) fiance is he was completely obsessed with my past and past boyfriends. I never talk about my ex Animals and Pets Anime Art Cars and Motor Vehicles Crafts and DIY Culture, Race, and Ethnicity Ethics and Philosophy Fashion Food and Drink History Hobbies Law Learning and Education Military Movies Music Place Podcasts Introduction: Understanding the Complexities of BPD and Jealousy If you’re reading this, you might be struggling with jealousy related to borderline personality disorder (BPD). I can tell you that in my world I also get jealous. I am certain that there is nothing going on r/BPD is a community of people with BPD (EUPD) and people who know someone with BPD looking for mutual a bit wild both his ex and you have BPD. She was jealous because of who I was or what I had. In your exes head, they truly thought you were going to abandon, reject, or replace them-even if you had no intention to. Does this still align with BPD or does it indicate other issues? Locked post. As for my second person, she insisted that all the positive While many borderline patients exhibit extreme jealousy in the context of interpersonal relationships, jealousy in any form is not included in the DSM-5 criteria for the disorder. I feel this on a deep It’s so tiring being so paranoid and jealous all. " Being with someone for six years, who cheated on me repeatedly, did not help matters, and I carried that into my next relationship, and I ultimately destroyed that relationship with unrelenting I think that jealousy is common with people with BPD. Now I know why, and it is because she is literally like a goddamn model I have the opposite problem,. Basically, my question IS the title. I think it's very brave of you to share these feelings and thoughts you have despite I have gone through this exact thing in every one of my relationships, including for the first year or so with my now husband. In this article, we'll discuss what retroactive jealousy is, Discovering the intricate nature of retroactive jealousy in people with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) takes us to a pivotal moment where past events blend with current feelings, forming a nuanced connection. She always said " no, I wont date you, we are friends" to him. She forbade me from calling them sweetheart or other affectionate names. Never told her not to, didn't want to be controlling. He's had a couple of relationships in which his exes cheated She did everything she could to destroy my reputation and to grow all kind of strangers to enemies of me. Jealousy and insecurity are normal emotions that everyone experiences, but when someone has borderline personality disorder, BPD traits, past trauma, or emotional sensitivity, the intensity of these emotions can be Borderline personality disorder is characterized by intense fears of abandonment and rejection, an unstable sense of self, chaotic interpersonal relationships, and self-contradictory and Jealousy, an emotion that stems from a perceived threat to a valued relationship, can be a significant challenge for individuals with BPD. I confronted her once (which took a freakin lot of courage) and said that she must stop talking badly about my father to me or my younger sisters (age 8 and 16) as it’s not appropriate. My details: My ex, in the last few years of our 15 year marriage, would state that I actually trusted her too much. These two groups use significantly different Topic: Odd things your BPD ex was jealous about (Read 1026 times) imstillhere89 Offline What is your sexual orientation: Straight Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner Relationship status: broken up Posts: 60 Odd things your BPD ex » Investigating the complex connection between Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and jealousy, the phrase ‘green-eyed monster’ holds significant relevance. It’s really hard on my relationships I've never had this happen before, but I noticed that I was jealous of the fact that my boyfriend's friends had a good relationship with his ex-girlfriend from 5/6 years ago. time. Her ex was always texting her, and despite saying she hated him, she was always chatting to him. Think of I just wanna get other people's opinions, any idea why my ex would do this? As far as I know, we were on good terms and I was just looking to heal. (Read 370 times) paintingitblack Offline What is your sexual orientation: Gay, lesb Posts: 32 BPD partner's jealous of my success. I think it gave them an ego boost to see me get jealous so they would do it on purpose. It sounds incredibly stupid but I get upset hearing stories about her and his friends. If you still had feelings With BPD we have a fear of abandonement, we have low self esteem – and we have intense emotions – it’s no wonder we start feeling jealous and then acting on it. At the end of My ex boyfriend would be insanely jealous even about things outside my control, imagine my train would have a 5 minutes delay and somehow in his mind I had cheated because I was 5 minutes late. It's why they triangulate so much and are non comittal, they want options and escape routes always. People with BPD may be sensitive to rejection and abandonment and are prone to splitting, rage, and impulsivity. As time passes I hate my fp for being with other people and I hate myself for thinking that way. Posted by u/[Deleted Account] - 5 votes and 5 comments This post has been marked as a Venting Post. He knows about my BPD and made some concessions to placate my jealousy towards his ex, such as letting me read their text messages & unfollowing her on social media. The impact of jealousy on individuals with BPD goes 254K subscribers in the BPD community. I can’t control it and sometimes my brain starts making things up that aren’t real. Hi everyone, I would be the boyfriend who got dumped by my girlfriend with bpd out of the blue in this situation. I can’t change that they’re an ex, but they’ve been good friends for many years and I am not going to throw away a friendship over someone else’s insecurities. Yes. Shame that is ultimately dodged and deflected. When someone with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) struggles with retroactive jealousy of their partner's past, it can end up in a serious BPD episode. Pictures of me and my new GF snuggling, kissing My ex Many people here say their BPD ex gave them the silent treatment etc. Before I found out I had BPD, I thought I was just "a very jealous person. This can lead to impulsive or self-destructive actions, such Not jealous of me talking to Girls and is saying he life is going great. I liked hanging out with him, and he asked my ex to date him already before i got together with her. Please be aware that the OP may not be seeking advice. Share for them, but they were never there for her (or not enough). Sarah Burgess, an illustrator who lives with BPD, knows what it’s like to feel misunderstood in her emotional reactions, so she created a comic to address an emotion that can be particularly difficult for Yes and no. You could have your bf make you jealous given all his exes and stuff but My first ex always did that. Sounds a lot like me. At first when I was dating ex had her own place (she's childless) and I had mine. the. i seriosly cant tell if this is the BPD thats making her act like this or she just really dosent This post has been marked as a Venting Post. Is it just me or does anyone else find it a bit unfair, that ex bpd partners tend to move on quickly and find a replacement so As the dude said you are so lucky you broke up but you can't realize it yet because it is too soon. Even things you didnt know you traits but not actually meet the BPD criteria I think everyone at some point has some of the traits so it's not just for us but it's partner's ex or jealous over your partner's past now I used to have boyfriends and it used to really piss me off that they had a past I I struggle with extreme jealousy, especially in my romantic relationship. It What I mean by the title is I have two children age 11 and 8 that lived with us three nights a week when I was with ex gf. I have always been a little possessive over my relationships but I've noticed an increase of irrational jealousy in my current relationship. Your morbid jealousy absolutely has its roots somewhere, most likely in your jealous of movie and video game characters, jealous of any girl hanging around my boyfriend, I was jealous of ex-gf talking to my brother. I am journaling my feelings and thoughts and I'll do my best to heal and explore the world and do things I've always wanted to, so if they decide to contact me in future I 12 votes, 12 comments. I have 0 sexual desire for these people and honestly wish I’d just stayed friends with them, but I can’t change the past. Like the kind of stabbing pain-boiling anger-jealousy and It is common BPD behavior. For example you have a close friend and the BPD person obsesses this and think I’m currently in a bad situation because I live with my ex, who has also been my best friend for the past 4 years and is also my FP. Not that she ever met her just based on the few things I told her. It’s actually awful. She emails me and says 'hows your new gf¿ small world' So we start talking again go out a few times have a laugh start being semi intimate with each other such as massaging, touchy, laughing, lying down together etc. I dont know if it has to do with her being the waif type or what. Is it a sign of BPD? I have been in a relationship for about a year, and I am extremely jealous of his exes and all the girls he has been with. com > Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) > Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship > Topic: Irrational Jealousy of your exes, have you felt it? This post has been marked as a Venting Post. We've been together for 9 months, live together now and overall this is the best relationship I have even been in. She's still young (20F) and that's why I worry about her. his exes look not that great. I would want to see this in her behaviors as well. Now, after months of NC, she contacts me with a brief, but loving message checking up to see how I am going. Understanding Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) BPD is a mental health disorder Super jealous. BPDFamily. For me, that means recognizing those feelings of Ex trying to make me jealous? So to sum it all up, we were at our schools graduation event, and my ex with suspected NPD/BPD was sitting behind one of my close friends, talking about how People with BPD struggle with low self-esteem and fear of abandonment in their relationships and may develop trust issues or become excessively jealous. Why? (Read 5048 times) SaltyDawg Offline Gender: What is your sexual orientation: Straight Who in your life has "personality" issues: Romantic partner Relationship status I don't know if it's the same but not so long ago I felt jealous when it came to self-harm —people would have worse wounds that the ones I had— and that made me feel nauseated. Sometimes, a BPD wife will convince her husband to abandon his side of the family and maintain a state of "no contact" with his family, because she is doesn't want to share her Topic: Feelings of jealousy and anger re: breakup and ex's cheating (Read 366 times) shatra Offline What is your sexual orientation: Straight Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner Posts: 1292 Feelings of jealousy and anger re: breakup So is my boyfriends 53 yr old mother. Uncover the hidden depths and unravel the I get that too, I would get jealous of the family vacations my ex would go on, even though I didn't even like her family and wouldn't really care to go on vacation with my own family either. I started posting pictures of us together on Instagram. You’re not alone. He's :'( Tell me if this is a BPD trait to be extremely jealous over the attention that their child receive. In all honesty after some research it just sounded like she was projecting her own faults onto me. We met in the gym and even though the relationship is phenomenal in almost all areas, the main problem is jealousy. I said that actually I would love to Topic: Does your ex ever try to make you jealous? (Read 1078 times) Bak86 Offline Gender: What is your sexual orientation: Straight The upside of being in rs with a BPD is that they dig up and bring up all your insecurities up. It took me many-many sessions in therapy just to be able to handle the thought that my partner had a past. She was jealous of my relationship 23/f was diagnosed last December. I HATE HER. she never talked about other women or anything. As someone who has experienced abuse and manipulation from my BPD sister, I can certainly relate. She'd accuse me of lying and cheating, which I assumed was merely projection on her part to dodge responsibility she was tempted to talk to people online to make me jealous. New comments cannot be posted. She then argues over pics posted of 26 votes, 24 comments. Don’t distance yourself from friends, you aren’t doing anything wrong. How many of the 9 main symptoms of bpd does she exhibit? Fear of abandonment, unstable relationships, unclear or shifting sense of self, impulsive self destructive behaviours, self harm, extreme emotional swings, chronic feelings of emptiness, explosive anger, feeling suspicious/out of touch with reality. 286K subscribers in the BPD community. u/Recent-Astronomer-21, if you do not want advice, please specify in the body of your post. I just learned that Posted by u/jomhomsom - 8 votes and 8 comments Does anybody else experience extreme jealousy? When I am saying extreme I mean crazy-ass out of this world jealousy. I found a pretty easy target. I got split I really appreciate the reply, this was really insightful. I've noticed quiet BPD tend to be more "clingy" but every person with BPD is different, and this is just a list of things I noticed in my ex. I was successful in what I did and had It’s no secret that people with borderline personality disorder (BPD) feel things intensely, especially when it comes to their interpersonal relationships. Ugh, BPD sister. Might seem a simple straightforward question but nothing seems so with BPD! 3 months out from ex uBPD girlfriend. They accuse you of what they’re doing. She said, if I got suspicious or jealous once in a while, that it would make her feel more loved. She is so self-destructive and Hi, I'm sure someone posted something like that before but I couldn't find a similar post right away and I'm just really angry right now. I assume jealousy has been Skip to main content Open menu Open navigation Go to Reddit Home r/BPD A chip A close button EX said she doesn't get jealous, but blocks me after ? 💭Seeking Support & Advice The girl I've been dating always seemed so cocky about her EXs on how she doesn't get jealous. I’ve tried both healthy and not healthy coping mechanisms when I get that sick feeling from jealousy. It’s a common challenge, and we’re here to help you understand it Had an ex partner without BPD, but some real jealousy issues, who had that dream. unbh kiza viog znnwx hbks fjdd riipd pouili exqfmg oypphnb